Xiaohongshu
Written by Vanessa Florio, Master's Student in International Relations of the Americas
Since the outbreak of COVID-19, it's safe to say that our daily lives have radically changed, and nobody really knows the effects it will have on our lives in the long run. UCL moved all teaching activities online and even changed the format of exams to adapt to the current situation, but aside from my studeies, all around me things have changed. I was also working on campus at the UCL Volunteering Service, but I have been working from home since March. Aside from my studies and work life, the pandemic has had such a big impact on our social lives - not being able to see our family and friends and staying at home more than ever, which definitely forced all of us into a new way of life.
I live at home with my mum and twin brother, and I remember being quite anxious about my mum since she is considered to be a person at high risk due to her age. Even before lockdown, all three of us used to cover our mouth and nose with a scarf when we had to go buy groceries and quickly changed to wearing masks. At the beginning, it was strange going into shops wearing a mask, since no one was wearing one and at times it felt like people were starring at me for wearing one. However, I knew that if I wore one, it would not only make me feel safer, but it would also protect the people around me. Since March, I feel like I’ve become less anxious and that I’ve adapted to the new normal, but I continue to wear my mask everywhere I go and I try to keep my 2-metre distance from everyone to keep them and myself safe. I definitely feel safer since June 15, given that face masks are mandatory when going to shops and taking public transport, however, sadly, there are still people who don’t stick to the rules, which is why at many stations there are British Transport police officers who are stopping travellers who refuse to wear a mask. One thing that this pandemic has made me realise is that although we are all in this together, there will always be people who don’t comply with the guidelines, but it is important to lead as an example and to do what you think is best for yourself and your family.
This pandemic has also made me realise how important it is to focus on the things we can control and have a daily routine. What has helped me particularly, was knowing that I had to work twice a week, which definitely gave me some sort of purpose and distraction from what is still going on in this world. Given that I’m a master’s student, I also had to write my dissertation during this period, which allowed me to have a small project that I could work on and that enabled me to immerse myself into the books and articles for my research, which definitely kept me busy. Another way in which I stayed active was by sticking to a workout routine, which can easily be done at home, going jogging with my brother twice a week, and going for long evening walks. This has not only made our bond stronger, but it also enabled me to do something for my health and well-being.
I know that this pandemic has been extremely difficult for many people, including families that have vulnerable family members and people losing their jobs, but I think it is important to stay optimistic, cherish every moment, and focus on the present. We can only do our best with what we have today, after all tomorrow is another day. With regulations changing frequently, conflicting media discussions and increasing uncertainty, we must keep focused on the things that we can control for now and be hopeful that the situation will get better soon.